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Woman Calls Off her Wedding After She Caught her Fiancee Watching Porn - Mhiz Rebecca - 08-23-2018
A woman from America has cancelled her wedding
to a man she described as 'her best friend' just one
week ahead of the big day because - wait for it - he
was looking at pornography on his phone.
Claire Dalton revealed her decision in a post for the
blogging site Love What Matters. Basically, the 21-
year-old had grown up as a young girl wishing to
find a love that was 'true and pure' as well as
'governed by God's law'.
She almost had exactly that, until just days before
she and her fiancé were due to be wed when she
discovered that he had several tabs open on his
phone that contained some less than savoury
images.
She said that he'd obviously been watching porn
just hours earlier and that he had "multiple
windows open of sick and twisted ideas of what
women supposedly look like."
She continued:
"I felt like I'd been cheated on. It changed my
entire relationship with him, including all the
happy memories we had shared in the past. It made
me feel worthless and unlovable."
"Someone I loved and cared for deeply had been
expertly lying to me for the entire length of our
relationship, and possibly longer, since we had
been friends for so long."
"All at once, I was with a stranger instead of the
person I thought I knew so well. In an instant I
could never trust those lying eyes ever again.
"All I ever wanted in a relationship was honesty,
and it quickly occurred to me the only honesty I'd
known at that point was fake.
"Experiences like this MUST BE TALKED ABOUT
because keeping quiet only leaves deeper wounds
and undeniable scars.
"My hope is that someone who reads this knows
she's not the first one to go through something
similar, and it's okay to hurt for a long long
time."It's okay to take time to grieve. It's okay to
feel broken. And there IS HOPE FOR HEALING."