[Mhiz Rebecca]

Studies have revealed that a generation of
ladies are highly rejecting men all in favour of
a life of ease and luxury. And it’s believed that
ladies normally enjoy the thrill of the chase by
guys which gives them confidence or certainty
in their beauty and market value.
Therefore, it inflates their ego, giving them
false sense of self importance that they tend to
start misbehaving, thereby, playing kites and
chess with the lives of prospective chairmen as
well as kind hearted guys
No offense taken; ladies, in general, are
somewhat greedy in the sense that they crave a
companionship that is solely based on financial
circumstances and what would profit them
most.
Now to the matter; just as guys fault ladies for
their inability to find girlfriends. Ladies on the
other hand will also not find fault in their live
style but will fault guys for their single status.
Now, I shall discuss these excuses laid by
ladies for their inability to find boyfriends
10 Excuses Ladies Use To Justify Their Inability
To Find Boyfriends
1. Guys can’t do without Demanding for Sex
For God’s sake, not all dudes insistently and
peremptory request for kitty-cats in
relationships; so the earlier the better for you
to stop dwelling in the philosophy that all
dudes cannot date a lady without tumbling
beneath the sheets. Though, I can’t speak for
all dudes but I can at least speak for myself. I
have dated quite a few number
of ladies and I can tell you that I never
demanded for a kiss not to talk of kitty-cat.
2. I don’t have Time for Guys
I have overheard many ladies saying they
don’t have time for guys. They are like, ” I
don’t have time for boys jawe because they
aren’t worth the stress” This is not a valid
excuse at all and I will really like the ladies
to enlighten us if there’s a specific time when a
lady will publicly announce that she now has
time for boys
3. Guys are too Stingy
One of the favourite excuses that so many
ladies use for not dating is, accusing guys of
being stingy or prudent in spending on them.
Well, it’s easy to say that guys are too stingy”
when they have no idea of how guys struggle
to meet ends need. I can’t afford to buy
Brazilian hair for a lady when I know that if I
add 50k to the money, I will definitely get a
plot of land in Mowe or Ibafo . More so, you
can’t just expect a guy to hustle hard and
expect him to spend his little savings on
perishable things. As for me, it’s not that I’m
stingy or something but I have dated more
than 20 ladies since 1995 and the highest
amount I have ever given to a lady is just N150.
Don’t blame
me, I’m saving for a rewarding future.
4. Guys are Distractions
Ladies, don’t blame your inability to find
boyfriends on the philosophy that guys are
distraction. You are the one that is a distraction
to yourself not guys. A lady who will not
remain focus will not be, even though she
starts using cutlass to chase men away
5. All Guys are the Same
Hey listen, I don’t agree with you that all guys
are promiscuous. The fact that you met a dude
who revealed his true nature as sodomizing as
player who deceived you, tumbled beneath the
sheets and dumped you afterwards does not
necessarily mean that every dude would do the
same. Don’t let anybody deceive you that all
guys are programmed to act the same way. Not
all of
us cheat on ladies. Some of us are very m
faithful to our girlfriends
6. I will only Date When I’m Ready To Marry
What if men don’t come when you are ready to
marry? Do you think OLX will save you? That
every Tom, Dick and Naijaboiy is chasing you
does not mean that the chase will remain
forever. Please stop living a life of
procrastination. Don’t let anybody deceive you,
there’s no specific time for dating
7. Men are Irresponsible
Why would you find a responsible man when
you are irritating, nauseating coupled with
repulsive attributes such as immoral dressing
and attitude problems. The way you appear
determines the quality of men you would
attract. You can’t dress like Cossy Orjakor and
expect Pastor Adeboye to ask for your hand in
marriage. Work on yourself and stop dwelling
in the erroneous belief that guys are
irresponsible
8. I have High Taste
I won’t shy away from the fact that life is all
about high taste. But it is paramount to know
that everything should be done with
moderation. The standard you have set for
yourself might be too hard for a layman to
meet up to. This implies that you may like
to have a rendezvous at Silverbird, and I can
only afford Iya Ngozi spot
9. I’ve not Seen a Good Guy yet
Why would you see a good guy when you are
looking for a man without blemish. There are
thousands of good boys both online and offline.
Na you no open your eyes
10. Feel free to add yours