[Mhiz Rebecca]

Some behaviours are better left for teenagers and
kids.
The very idea of trying to hurt someone or yourself
just because they told you they are no longer in
love with you doesn’t portray someone who is
emotionally mature.
No matter how bad the breakup was, or how
terribly they went about it, you should never
descend to the level of doing the 10 things listed
here below:
Indirect insults on social media
“It’s crazy how some people cannot even act right
in a relationship.”
Don’t post such message on Facebook, Twitter or
Instagram.
You might not mention names, but we all know you
are talking about the babe you just broke up with.
Trying to ruin their reputation
Don’t publish their nude pictures or reveal secrets
that might embarrass them.
Doing so only makes you look petty, and of course
petty is not what you want to be known as.
Asking for gifts back
There are only fewer things more childish and
sillier than this.
Why should you ask for a gift back after you have
given it to someone? No matter how you look at it,
no matter how expensive the gift is, just take your
mind off it.
It’s theirs now, let it go.
Endless drinking
Ok. If you like to drown the pain away like that, you
are permitted to drink away the misery for one
night. No more.
Continuous, uninhibited drinking over a guy/girl
that broke your heart is not tasteful, and as an
adult who is responsible, you should be thinking of
better ways to get through this than drinking
yourself into more gloom.
Taking the drama to their place of work
This sounds totally crazy but it happens. Believe
me, guys, it happens.
However, you must never take personal matters
such as this to anyone’s office or place of work, no
matter how hurt you are, or how desperately you
want them back.
Trying to earn the support of his family and friends
I have witnessed this several times and I have to
say it is totally wrong and underhanded. It is a
trick of kids and not befitting of anyone who calls
himself an adult.
Calling a girl’s family and reporting how they
unjustly dumped you will not bring the girl back, it
only spreads the news of how much of a loser you
are.
I would even love to ask, really, what do you expect
the family to do? Leave their son or daughter and
take you as theirs? LOL.
Just get over it, bro.
Bad-mouthing their bedroom skills
The moment after a guy breaks up with you should
not be the time you remember that he is a one-
minute man, or that there isn’t much difference
between his thing and a toothpick.
Never go about describing how a lady’s private
body parts look to all your guys just because she
broke up with you, no matter how wickedly she
went about it.
Swallow the pain, you’ll be alright.
Calling with hidden numbers
Calling from unlisted numbers and cussing the hell
out of them, pleading or hanging up just after
hearing their voice is totally crazy.
Let’s drop this act for teenagers, please.
Taking out your anger on every member of the
opposite sex
That guy or babe at your place of work did not
break your heart. Stop yelling at them for no
reason.
Starting a blog
When you just went through a bad breakup and all
of a sudden, you remember to start that you
wordpress site; and unsurprisingly, heartless men
are the subject of your first, second, third, fourth,
and infact all your posts…
No, sista , don’t do that. Don’t!