[Mhiz Rebecca]

Let’s face it, every relationship goes through hard
times and persevere through, making it to the
other side with a bit more experience behind them.
Not every bump in the road is reason to give the
whole relationship up, but there are some things
that are plenty of reason to say, “enough is
enough” and move on alone.
The following are ten things that should probably
signal the end of a relationship.

1. You think of cheating often
If you are thinking about being unfaithful
frequently, it is time to end the relationship that
you’re in. After thinking about it long enough,
most people will act on their desires eventually.
This is a terrible way to break off a relationship
and will hurt your partner even more than the
breakup itself. It will also make you look bad, and
for good reason.
1. Loss of friends and family
If the person that you are in a relationship with is
trying to separate you from everyone else that you
care about, this is a relationship to run away from.
This type of behavior is a clear “red flag” that
something isn’t right. They are probably very
jealous and controlling and may escalate to being
abusive.
1. All give, no take
If you find that you are constantly being the one
who gives up your wishes and does all the work in
the relationship, getting nothing in return, there is
no reason to stay in it. Relationships should go
both ways, using compromise as a key ingredient.
If this isn’t happening, the person who is doing all
the giving will wind up exhausted and eventually
run out of energy to give any more at all.
1. Your partner is cheating
There are a few cases when a cheater can
change and become a faithful, loving individual,
but for the most part if a person has been
unfaithful in a particular relationship they are
not prone to a just this habit. There will also be
trust issues that will be difficult or even
impossible to overcome.
2. You are trying alone
When a relationship goes through a difficult time,
you will have an opportunity to see how much
your partner feels the relationship is worth. If your
partner isn’t willing to put forth the effort to
assists the struggling relationship, it is probably
time to let it go. A relationship is about two people
working together not one person trying to fix all
the problems by themselves.
1. You’ve forgotten who you are
There are some relationship that tend to suck the
life out of you, leaving you an empty shell of your
former self. Friends and family may notice a
change in you when you are around this new
person in your life. If your (good)personality is
changing to accommodate another person, they
are probably not the one for you. Move on and
find someone who will love you for who you really
are.
1. You have no goals or dreams any more
We all need to have a dream, it’s what keeps us
going when times get tough. If you can’t
remember your dreams and hopes, you are losing
one of the most important parts of yourself and
the future will begin to look bleak.
1. Abuse
Any form of abuse is reason to leave right now. If
a person hasn’t become abusive yet but is
showing signs that they will such as very
dominant behavior, consider yourself lucky and
leave before your luck runs out.
9.You don’t like yourself
If you are starting to feel poorly about yourself, or
if you have for a while, there is something wrong.
It may not be the other person, but regardless,
you need to take some time to yourself and heal
whatever is hurting.
There are times that are hard to get through in
relationships, but if you are experiencing one or
more of the above issues, it is quite possible that
it is time to take your leave. There are times that
there is nothing left to do but go your own way
and do what’s best for you. Those times are when
“enough is really enough”!