[Mhiz Rebecca]

As written by Nollywood actress, Iyabo Ojo.
'Ladies, Not every man who cheats on you is bad!
it's in their nature to cheat as every man has a bit
of it deposited in them. He may love you but still
cheat on you, as long as he respects, care and
keeps it far away from you. it's a twisted world
my dear but that's just the fact'.
'If you find one who doesn't cheat on you then you are
extremely blessed but A man who makes you feel less
of your self, a man who enjoys seeing you beg and wail,
a man who doesn't care if you fall into depression a
million times until you run mad, a man who makes you
feel like nothing, a man who throws your love back to
your face at every given opportunity, a man who feels
you are so unattractive that he doesn't want to take you
out anymore giving you that low self esteem, a man who
never appreciate anything you do for him, a man who
feels your opinion doesn't count, a man who feels you
should be seen and not heard, a man who feels without
him you are nothing, a man who will only have you
when he wants you, a man who doesn't fight for you, a
man who condemns you to his friends and side chicks,
a man who looks at you with so much irritation, a man
who flaunts his side chick in front of you, a man who is
physically & mentally abusive towards you and
sometimes your kids, a Man you have to always beg to
perform his manly duty before he agrees to touch you!
That man is so bad and so wrong for you.
'Stop asking me what should I do? Oh the society and
my friends will mock me, oh my kids! Hello woman,
wake up he doesn't love you, stop looking for excuses
for him, his love was never real in d first place, Mrs is
not a do or die matter, your happiness should always
come first, you should always come first, it's only when
you are in the right frame of mind that you can take
good care of your kids. For the record, mothers who
vent their anger on their kids for failed husband issues
should stop it! No be them send you message'.
'You made d choice and it turned out wrong, you can
always make it right without him! You either die trying or
take a reality check and walk out! it's never too late! If
you stay in it well - all the best! Its a lost battle and you
are on your own. Your happiness must always come first
if you truly want to live for your kids and yourself
#strongwomen #strongmothers
#strongwomensupportingrealwomen'.